Our bride-to-be finally finds a dress for her Big Day.By Sara CardacePhew. I was really starting to worry that I just don't have the time or energy necessary to find a cute dress that wasn't ridiculously off the deep end in terms of price. And then--voila! I went to
The Bridal Garden with my fashion-editor friend Lauren and found one just like that.
I can't speak highly enough of the experience we had there. It was a bit intimidating at first: We walked into the little room--it couldn't have been more than 20x20--and there were about ten different girls in various stages of wriggling in and out of dresses, surrounded by wall-to-wall racks jam-packed with options. Thankfully the dresses were organized by style (strapless or sleeved) and size, so it wasn't too much of a free-for-all.
Lauren and I dove right in and were surprised to find about ten dresses we thought were worthy of a further look. (Don't get me wrong, there were some
serious clunkers, but to each his own...) We retreated back to a screened-off area by the windows and set to trying them on. We quickly narrowed it down to two--a strapless, plush champagne number with a tiny bit of beading on the bodice and a huge flouncy train (Lauren said it must have felt like wearing a down comforter, and she wasn't far off) and a structured, princess-y ivory a-line dress that was much simpler. The funny thing about gown-shopping is that it's really hard to tell in advance what you're going to look good in--I never, ever would have thought I'd wear something like that second dress, but when I put it on it may have been the most flattering dress I'd ever worn. My arms looked pin-thin! My waist tiny! It was demure and classy and, I think, somewhat unexpected for someone like me. I was sold.
Long story short, I decided to buy it on the spot. I had some questions about alterations--the dress isn't perfect; I'm going to want to soften the a-line waaaay down and possibly cap or remove the sleeves, and there's a lame bow on the back that definitely has to go--but the woman manning the showroom happened to be a seamstress and she showed me how they wouldn't be too huge a deal. I was still hesitant since I've heard how much alterations can jack up the price of the dress, and that's when she mentioned the discount. Discount? The dress was already slashed down to $1000! For no reason I could fathom, she whipped out her calculator and took it down to $800. At that price it was a no-brainer, alterations be damned. (And in case you're wondering, I actually don't know who made the dress--it came, like many samples, without a tag. But no matter. It's gorgeously made and clearly the work of someone who knows what they're doing...)
Also, the Bridal Garden is a completely charitable organization and the proceeds from dresses sold goes toward after school programs and education efforts for kids. Even better!
Now, does anyone know of a good seamstress for me to use? I'm thinking of heading to Jersey, if no for other reason than that I'm looking forward to stashing the dress at my parents' house as soon as possible. Urban closets were not made for the housing of flouncy wedding dresses and mine is already looking hopelessly cramped...
I recommend the Bridal Center in Lynbrook. They are on Sunrise highway in Lynbrook Long Island. About 40 minutes out of the city by car. I used Maria (she is an older Italian lady). She did an amazing job. My Bustle was perfect. It was not that three button nonsense but a perfect six button masterpiece. She made my dress fit like it was painted on. They can keep your dress there and they steam and press it with your veil and you pick it up about a week from the wedding. They run a bit expensive, but you are paying for what you are getting. My bridal attendants at my venue said I had an excellent seamstress and my bustle was one of the best they had ever seen. They do about 3 weddings a week so you could imagine they see a lot of gowns. Good luck
If you hear of a good seamstress or alterations person in Manhattan, please let me know. And thanks Dubious Brie. I too am in a bridal way, and am getting hitched at the aptly named Providence and am eager to check out the Bridak GArden. (Though technically I have ordered 2 used dresses from ebay already...) :)
i hope these women good luck in the future marriages.I would like to see my own daughter have a future just as wonderful as yours.
PLEASE LET ME KNOW IF PURCHASING MY WEDDING DRESS FROM THE INTERNET IS REALLY A TERRIBLE IDEA? AFTER SEEING LAST NIGHTS SHOW I REALIZED THAT WAS A VERSION OF ME SEARCHING FOR EVERYTHING ON THE INTERNET...I DO NOT WANT TO REGRET MY ACTIONS BY DOING SO BUT SHE AND I HAD DIFFERENT IDEAS...I WILL HAVE REAL FLOWERS...I SEARCHED FOR WHOLESALE TO MAKE THE BOUQUETS MYSELF...I PLAN TO MARRY IN SEPT.2009 I WANTED TO GET MARRIED FOR MY 45TH BIRTHDAY ON 7/12/09 BUT THE GROOM TO BE DOES NOT LIKE THE SUMMER HEAT....LOST IN LOTS OF IDEAS!
Hi,
Im getting married on June 4th 2010 and I dont know If I should start planning my wedding now or should I wait a lil more. Can any body help me?
I, personally think that it's never too early to start planning. Here I am. Not even engaged yet. We've talked alot about it. At first my boyfriend had mixed feelings about getting married. I think he was just afraid. But now, we talk about it everyday. He's encouraged me to order my dress and it' should be here any day now, we're even shopping for my engagement ring. Our wedding is November 21st of 2009. And I couldn't be more happy about it. You're supposed to be anxious, for some women... this never happens. Congrats to you all!
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 9 months now, and we talk about getting married every day. At first, it was always me starting the conversations and staying corraled to "my wedding" and not "our wedding". Now, he says "our wedding" for me and has even given me ideas about cake, dresses, and colours. It's a very exciting idea and I can't wait to get married. I am worried, though, about mail-ordering my dress. I find a lot of nice dresses in bridal magazines (even found THE perfect one!), but I can't fly to New York or Chicago or anywhere like that to get it fitted. Is there another way to get my dream dress?