The Locator

The Locator

My Brush With An American Hero

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Troy DunnTonight, there are TWO new episodes of The Locator on WE tv. The first is one of my absolute favorites! (Although I think I may say that every week, I love ALL of these courageous people!)

 
But this one really touched a deep place in my soul, perhaps because it centers around a 25-year-old U.S. soldier who has just returned from combat in the Middle East, and paid a high price. His name is Chad, but in my mind, I think of him as Travis. That's my little brother's name, and he too is 25 and has just returned from the frontlines of the war in Iraq. BOTH of them are heroes in my mind.

As I spoke with Chad, I could clearly see he has constructed some very tall, thick walls around his emotions, which must be a survival skill learned in combat because I have seen it before. But I just knew that behind his concrete exterior, was the heart of a boy...a boy who had seen and experienced things NONE of should have to see, and thankfully never will have to because of soldiers like Chad who do it for us. It was my goal to find a way to gently bring him out of that safe but lonely place he had created for himself in the far corners of his mind. The journey was difficult and awkward at times, but I believe you will "feel" it as he emerges. That metamorphosis changed me at the core.

I hope you will urgently email everyone you know, especially the families of U.S. soldiers and urge them to watch tonight's episode. It may bring some understanding, insight and hopefully inspiration and hope to those who love these brave men and women that have come home from combat a bit more distant or withdrawn than they were before they left. PASS IT ON ASAP, please.

And Then There Was Little Alexia...

The second episode of the night will be about a wonderful young woman named Alexia, who made me feel very paternal around her. I wasn't trying to be a fatherly figure, but when I'm around these young 'kids' who are making life-changing decisions, I just can't help but try to shield and protect them. Maybe that's what happens when you have 7 children--you just see ALL kids as your own. She is wonderful, brave, fragile yet strong. I learned a lot from being around her.

Her father was a man who I was prepared to not be at all pleased with based on what little I knew, but I tried to follow my own advice, which is to remember there are THREE sides to every story. I'm glad I held to that principle, because he is a fine man with a sincere capacity to love genuinely. I'm anxious for you to meet these two people and watch what unfolds for them!

BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!

I mentioned last week that we get a LOT of e-mails asking about my family. One of my sons, Treston, helps read the postings on the websites (especially the myspace page) and he asked if he could create a little family blog that takes folks behind the scenes of our family and answers questions from you. Well, with MUCH hesitation, I agreed but with numerous conditions. So, he has started a blog which he calls The Dunn Family Behind The Scenes and you can see it at http://www.thedunnfamilybts.blogspot.com/. It looks like he is shooting videos and posting them there, so go check it out. He even has a twitter account. Here is his and mine: His is http://twitter.com/dunnfamily and mine is http://twitter.com/thelocator.

Well, I better go. Josalin has a softball tournament and YOU need to go tell everyone you know (and don't know) to please watch The Locator! Remember, the more people who tune in to support family-friendly TV, the more families my team and I can reunite!

God bless you and ESPECIALLY our troops and their extraordinary families who wait for them to come home. May the Lord hear and answer your prayers.

Troy
"The Locator"
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The story of Chad and Dean has touched me so much. This was the best show yet that I've seen and this show has stayed on my mind. Please give updates of Chad and his dad.

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I watch all of the episodes sometimes more than once. I was so impressed with Chad's story and the reaction of his father and the rest of the family. What wonderful people they are. I had picked up take out that night for the kids and while I was waiting I saw a police car pull up, then a woman with a child, then a man. The woman exchanged the child to the man with the policeman standing in the parking lot. I then went home and watched the show. I saw Alexia's story and immediately thought of what I had seen earlier at the restaurant. Although, I don't advocate leaving your children, I could see where her dad was coming from and think that he did make a selfless choice. I thought about the baby in the parking lot and wondered how the arrangement they have will affect that child. It is hard to make the right choices as parents, you just have to make the best of what you have. Troy and his group are angels for sure.

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This was one of my favorite episodes. What a wonderful thing you do for people who are searching for lost loved ones. I am an adopted child who was lucky enough to meet both biological parents, a full brother and sister and 8 half brother and sisters. I am 44 years old and when I was 24 met my biological parents and brother and sister. I feel lucky to have met them since they have both passed away in the last few years and would have always wondered if I had not found them.

I have two brothers, whom are also adopted, who have never met their biological fathers, and since our parents divorced when we were young and they never had a father figure growing up, I have always felt very badly for them. I feel a father figure is so important in a boys life, that the story with Chad really pulled at my heart strings. I really admire the way Dean embraced him into his life and his family. What a great story!

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I can't put into words how thankful I am that Tory helped Chad meet his biological father. Chad now has a better sense of who he is and how he got some of his features. I also want to thank them for how they made the reunion work so well. This was something I would never have been able to do on my own. The team behind Troy is THE BEST!! Thank you all for the greatest gift anyone could have given Chad and Dean. I could not give him his best friend back but I hope Dean becomes one of Chad's new best friends! Chad is my Hero! and Troy and his Team are truely angels!

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I watch the show every week, several times, I record it so I don't miss it. This week was amazing. Chad's dad and stepmother were the most amazing people. My husband is an attorney and we see alot of domestic cases, no one and I mean no one ever reacts like they did when the found out about Chad. They were excited and just the perfect people for that Hero. When Dean was relieved he was the father I fell in love, like I sid they were amazing.

The second story was almost as sweet, while I didn't agree with him giving up, I do understand how awful it can be in that situation. I am glad the still keep in touch and was glad how happy he was to know she was looking for him. Every story has been great, but Chad and Dean are so far my favorites.

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I can relate to Alexia case. My daughter was taken from me 18 years ago and I have never met her to this day. I know where she is but she wants nothing to do with me. She was told nothing but bad things about me. I only wish she would sit and hear me out just once.

My wife and I were both in tears when we watched last nite. My wife even said that show reminded her of me and my daughter.

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Today I watched your program for the first time and the stories were both sad and happy. The one about Wendy wanting to meet her mother was sad. That poor woman. My heart went out to her. How could her mother be so cold and distant? She is a cruel person to do that to her daughter. Alright, she and Wendy's dad didn't get along. Fine. But why punish Wendy and her brother? That's what she's doing I don't care what excuse she comes up with. Do Wendy and her brother resemble their father by any chance and the mom hates them for it? I've known people who were abused as children simply because they resembled one of the hated parents. How sad, like it was their fault. I hope you keep in touch with Wendy and find out how she's doing. She doesn't deserve what her mom said. Mean, selfish, cold hearted woman. I think I'm going to like your show.

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Loved both stories tonight. They were amazing. The only thing I was disappointed with is that at the end of the last story it did not say what happened with the daughter and her father. But I love this show and I watch it every Saturday night with my mother and it always brings tears to our eyes. Thanks for having a show that is great

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