Cheating Husband
My husband and I have been married for six years. There has been infidelity in our marriage on both parts. We started going to couseling last year I thought that this was going to be a fresh start. While we were in couseling he cheated on me and I found out from someone else that he did. We stopped going to counseling because he hid it from me the whole time anyway. I was going to leave but he convinced me to stay saying that he only did it to get back at me for cheating three years prior which made me feel really guilty. So I stayed thinking that things would be better we decided to try to have another baby which was a big mistake four months into my pregnancy I found out that yet again he was cheating, but this time was worse this was a full blown affair not a one night stand. Now I feel stuck and have no idea what to do.
You are not trapped in this marriage... get out now!!! If he can't keep it in his pants than he is putting you and your unborn's life a risk. He could bring home an STD or HIV to you. You have support and help from your loved ones if you reach out. Nothing is worth the hurt he is giving you and the disrespect he has for you. You are stronger than you know and there is always child support.
Please, Please Please leave him and start anew. I have been where you are and finally divorced him and found a man who is everything my ex wasn't and have finally found real happieness.
Seems as though he is the one with a serious problem. He is making you feel like you're the problem but you are not. The guilt trip is no excuse. He wants you to feel bad so that he can take the heat off of himself. Hun, you need to leave this man. He doesn't respect you, your marriage, or your unborn child. Please don't be crazy and stay with him thinking that this will make everything better because it will only get worse. Love yourself and leave!