WOMEN. am i the crazy one?
Ok. So most of the women on here (that I've read or answered to anyways) are worried about bachelor parties and their men being content or relaxed. I, however, couldn't care less if my fiance and his friends had a stripper at his party because I know that's not his style, and he'd never do anything to jeopardize our relationship. My question is, why are women SO insecure and needy? We all catch ourselves complaining about how complacent everything has become, but when is the last time we did something nice for them? And I don't mean buy them clothes or shoes, I mean, stuff they really want or like??
jjacksis, I so agree with you. When I got married I knew my husband, his friends, his brother and all 8 of my brothers went to a strip club for his bachelor party. I am not insecure. I know he looks at women on tv and those sports magazine swimsuit issues. I know for a fact that he has the hots for Shania Twain, Helen Hunt, Diane Lane and Lee Lee Sobeski. Just like he knows my list of fantasy men. But we ALWAYS put each other first. His birthday was a little over a week ago, so I dressed up in a skimpy french maid outfit (purchased at our local Adult Entertainment store) met him at the front door with his favorite drink in hand and waited on him all night long! (if you know what I mean) He could not stop smiling at me. I love it when he shows how happy he is. I can honestly say I spoil him. But then again he spoils me too. We do stuff like this for each often. And yes ladies, it is the little things we do that count. Its not always all about sex, but is sure helps. He takes care of me and I take care of him. And besides he too cheap to go to a strip club on a regular basis. He's told me several times that strippers are expensive. He's got his pole dancer at home, and we've been going strong for over 12 years.
haha mistressdiva17. i love it!! you're such an inspiration. i was starting to think i was crazy for a second. and i haven't done the french maid but i know he likes dress up =P soooo thanks for the hope in women kind! :)
and a note to women: it's not like t.v... u gotta please ur man to be pleased... just know.. 98% of the things you want can be accomplished if u just bribe him with a little "Treat"
The answer to you question is that in some house holds that was how some women are raised, follow by example as the old saying goes and that some men if by chance give the chance might just take a cookie from the wrong cookie jar. (Not all men do, but there are those few out there).
Next, women all across the united states and other countries do nice things for their husbands, but some men, half the time do not notice it, ignore it, or over look it. (you have the few who notice it)
I believe that for some women being needy is a way to get attention from their man. trying to be noticed, trying to get some attention. And in my personal belief is that I believe that men have to step up to the plate and do nice things for their wives/girlfriends to make them feel appreciated, loved, and to feel as if they are the only women in the world they see. not just one sided here, it takes two to be happy in a relationship.
You can do everything that your man wants and like and do it right but still catch him on myspace talking about hooking up with another female for the same thing so whats the point???!!!!