Cold man
i've been with a wonderful man for 6 months. he was with me through my fathers passing...so at one of those moments, i told him i love him. he cant say it back. he's very bitter because his ex wife cheated on him, so now he thinks that will happen again. so because of her, i have a man with cold feet...expressess no emotion.
do i wait it out??? do i assume he'll never get over his fear??
GET OUT ASAP! One of my best friends has the EXACT same situation except he's the guy and his wife's the crazy. Her ex husband cheated on her and left her. She has a little girl who is very sweet. My friend married her and she NEVER got over that problem. EVER! There have been so many different problems and episodes I can't begin to tell you. I feel so bad for him. He's miserable all the time because of her insecurities. It's not fair. My advice is, get out while you still can. Don't work so hard. If one can't fulfill your wants or needs, another man can.
take it from my own experience. My ex-husband brought his feelings for his exwife into our marriage and it ended up with him getting violent because of his anger at her. Right now he is in jail for false imprisonment and domestic battery, because in his mind, I was her...Be careful
Ok this is what you should do you should tell him how you feel about all this and how much it's affecting you. You and him should have a long talk about all of this and wait and see what he says. If he really cares about you he would do everything to try and work things out with you. You need to let him know not every body's the same. And you need to also tell him if were going to make this work you have to learn to trust me. And if he can't do that leave him, and trust me if he really loves you and affraid to admits it to he will if he know's that his losing some one that he love. If you guys was meant to be you will be! Trust me, if it's yours to begain with it'll come back to you! And if not pray about it, and the right man will come to you! I did and I'm with him now!!!