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Addicted Principal

Hopefully this was the correct show that I saw this program on. I'm talking about the Principal of a school that claimed to be addicted to heroin for 25 years. I don't believe it! This was a story so far-fetched that I was surprised that ANYONE could believe it. It's not possible to hide that kind of addiction for that many years from everyone. I have never had an addiction like this, but have worked with people who HAVE had this type of addiction and believe me, there's no one that is cunning enough to keep this problem that well hidden. If I am posting this comment under the incorrect television show, I apoligize. If not? Then the reporters are assuming that the viewing public is more gullible than my 2 year old nephew.

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Who will get Jessica's baby

There is a part to this show when one of the "loser" couples have a chance to adopt a little boy who had just been given up by his mom. I have inside scoop on this "mom" since I am raising her 2 other children whom she has not seen or spoken to in over 5 years.
Kristen Lang was a stay at home mom who loved to drink, smoke and have sex with anyone and everyone. Including but not limited to the cable guy (on the kitchen table no less) and they guy down the street. Her husband was a man who took his marriage vows to heart. She on the other hand did not. They lived in Ohio where she left her new born daughter (2nd child) who was 2 months old at the time and ran off for over a month to stay with a guy that she met at a bar. Who goes to bars when they have a new born at home? Kristen did. She came home after a month of sex, drugs and rock and roll and begged for forgiveness from her husband. He took her back (yet again) and a week later SURPRISE she was pregnant. She agreed that that affair was the last one (she had more before that one) and agreed to give the child up for adoption since it was not her husbands child. The family moved to GA for yet another fresh start (having moved from FL to OH for other fresh starts) and Matt was born. K changed her mind abouth giving him up and used the child as leverage. If the husband left her she would take his 2 children and he would never see them again. He took it as long as he could until she found "true love" from a guy on the internet. When hubby was gone on a business trip, he came home to find his wife's lover in his home and listened while the guy boasted that he had sex with his wife in his bed and she was leaving with him. She did leave and took Matt with her. She LEFT the other 2 kids behind but she did take the family dog. She lived with this new love in IN until he tried to kill her (now serving time in prison) and since her family had their fill of her nonsense, she went to live at a battered womans shelter. She called and begged hubby to take her back yet again but divorce was going ahead full steam by this time. So who am I? I met Hubby just as the divorce was final. We talked all the time and had so much in common. Even though we both agreed that it was not the best time to start a relationship, we both knew it was the real deal. We were married in the Fall of 2003. Kristen left foul messages on our voice mail, sent police over in the middle of the night for "welfare checks" and made a pure jackass out of herself. Never having conversations with the kids, never even asking about them. Just filth. She did leave a message (which we still have) that she would willingly give up all rights (she gave up just about all rights in the divorce and even sent the dog back) to the kids if we pay her $1300. I guess in her world kids are cheap. She tried to sue for child support for Matt but it didnt work because in the divorce papers she stated that only 2 kids were produced in the marriage, not Matt. When she realized that she could not get money for Matt and the real "father" was no where to be found, she walked into the A Childs Waiting and gave up her rights to Matt. She agreed to do 20/20 because she thought this would make her a "star".
This is just a sample of what has happened, there is not enough time to really tell the whole story. But I hope the point gets across. The tears she cried on 20/20 are fake. Take note that 20/20 does not even mention the ex-husband and 2 kids she ran out on.
We have an order of protection against her (told oldest child she was going to take his sister away so he would never see her again because he would not spy on us and give her reports) which she has violated twice. She has warrents out for not showing up at court to address the charges. The oldest child does not want anything to do with her (dont blame him) and considers me Mom. The youngest has no memory of her and never will.
Both kids are happy and doing great. Matt has a wonderful family that he deserves. We have no clue if Kristen is alive or dead and really dont care. Her own mother has not spoken to her in 3 years. The last her mother heard, Kristen was on crack and was living where ever she could find a spot. No job, no money Kristen uses the men she meets in bars or online to take care of her. She is proof that just because you can give birth sometimes you really shouldnt.

After watching 20/20 on WE I ask 'What has happen to our Judical system?'

Our Judicial system is clearly in the need of reform! With DNA and all the modern equipment you would think an innocent person would have no worries, not when human emotion is involved! This is truer if you are a spouse or a close friend living in a home were someone is injured or killed.
In the case just aired were the husband was accused of murdering his wife because he was in love with another woman. I can't understand how an appeal can be turned down when you hear and see what the Jury did during the deliberation and interview with 20/20? Aren't they supposed to weigh the evidence as presented? The other problem is they interpreted the 911 call to their opinion and not to the facts as presented. I thought it arrogant that they would think that during a emergency situation you would use your partners name and not Honey or Baby etc. I guess they haven't been in a 911 situation, if they had they would know you say what is most comfortable and what you are use to, until asked "what is the victims name?". I am so use to call my wife baby,' Hey baby!'; 'Baby, how was you day?'; that I sometimes forget her name! Then to have them say they had 10 to 20 percent doubt whether he really was guilty after they declared they were unanimous in the fact he was guilty beyond a shadow of doubt; should have caused a judge to declare a mistrial.
This reminds of an issue that burns me! Why is it that to many investigators don't investigate following the evidence, they focus on who they think did it and form the evidence to fit their conclusion. The most popular is, the husband killed his wife, and the wife killed the husband; they find it difficult to believe someone else did the murder, so much so that if someone else did do the murder they will ad ,"yea, but the spouse paid for it!" then set out to prove it! The sad thing is when the prosecutor say a man is guilty the hurt family ignores reality and jump on the band wagon declaring the person guilty! Hey, isn't he presumed innocent until properly gathered evidence proves beyond a shadow of a doubt to 12 peers he is guilty? In the case presented, if the evidence presented in court is what we heard, HOW DID THEY FIND HIM GUILTY?
It is so sad the way our judicial system functions, we are not innocent till proven guilty, we are guilty unless a jury says innocent! The evidence they use is your own words after verbally assaulting you for hours and hours; 14, and 15 hours at a time!(they don't tell you, and most don't understand, you don't have to sit there taking the verbal assaults! Unless they arrest you, then you have the right to a lawyer and you still don't have to answer their questions, that is the lawyers job!) Then call you back for more of the same until you repeat back to them what they want to hear! Yet people still don't understand the concept of false confession! When will this madness stop?

Let me address one other irritation, police abuse of power. I know placing a suspect to the ground is to help prevent them from running or hurting the arresting officer, but it is not always needed! I watched Cops, or Most Shocking, many times after a chase a driver will open his door and as he is stepping out (it is plain and easy to see he is unarmed) then BANG! They body slam him to the ground or against the side of his car! Why, there is absolutely no reason for this brutality, he is willingly surrendering! The longer the chase the harder they throw him! I worked with Developmentally Disabled and Mentally Ill; I was trained in nonviolent intervention, sometimes folks get upset, more times was I able to talk them through the issue rather than physically manipulate them. Why can't cops try this? It didn't matter if they had a weapon, or the had one I didn't know about, I was able to talk them out of the behavior more times than I had to get physical. During the physical confrontation, seldom did anyone get hurt! I understand the police job is tense and stressful, but they still don't need to throw anyone anywhere!


 

Where do we go for definition of liberty and law

Where is the law that should have protected my daughter? I bellieve having the liberty to love anyone of any sex, creed, color, or sex is a beautiful cause for freedom and liberty, but because we are an infallable society the law must place limitations on that liberty. When my 15 year old daughter became involved with a 28 year old woman local law enforcement was unable to help us. I was told since her partner was a woman that sexual contact could not be proved, therefore she was not treated as a predator. Is an adult seeking out intamacy and sex from a child not a predator irregardless of gender? Our society has evolved to a day when stalking, hitting children, and all rapes are recognized and subject to due process. These movements were created by victims and families who fought for them. It is too late for my daughter, her life will never be the same, I want a fight for the definition of the law, I want justice restored, and freedom respected. Could someone point me in the right direction, someone please talk to me. As a person this woman is responsible for her actions, as a mother I am responsible, as a community and country we are all responsible. Marla Hogan