Who will get Jessica's baby

There is a part to this show when one of the "loser" couples have a chance to adopt a little boy who had just been given up by his mom. I have inside scoop on this "mom" since I am raising her 2 other children whom she has not seen or spoken to in over 5 years.
Kristen Lang was a stay at home mom who loved to drink, smoke and have sex with anyone and everyone. Including but not limited to the cable guy (on the kitchen table no less) and they guy down the street. Her husband was a man who took his marriage vows to heart. She on the other hand did not. They lived in Ohio where she left her new born daughter (2nd child) who was 2 months old at the time and ran off for over a month to stay with a guy that she met at a bar. Who goes to bars when they have a new born at home? Kristen did. She came home after a month of sex, drugs and rock and roll and begged for forgiveness from her husband. He took her back (yet again) and a week later SURPRISE she was pregnant. She agreed that that affair was the last one (she had more before that one) and agreed to give the child up for adoption since it was not her husbands child. The family moved to GA for yet another fresh start (having moved from FL to OH for other fresh starts) and Matt was born. K changed her mind abouth giving him up and used the child as leverage. If the husband left her she would take his 2 children and he would never see them again. He took it as long as he could until she found "true love" from a guy on the internet. When hubby was gone on a business trip, he came home to find his wife's lover in his home and listened while the guy boasted that he had sex with his wife in his bed and she was leaving with him. She did leave and took Matt with her. She LEFT the other 2 kids behind but she did take the family dog. She lived with this new love in IN until he tried to kill her (now serving time in prison) and since her family had their fill of her nonsense, she went to live at a battered womans shelter. She called and begged hubby to take her back yet again but divorce was going ahead full steam by this time. So who am I? I met Hubby just as the divorce was final. We talked all the time and had so much in common. Even though we both agreed that it was not the best time to start a relationship, we both knew it was the real deal. We were married in the Fall of 2003. Kristen left foul messages on our voice mail, sent police over in the middle of the night for "welfare checks" and made a pure jackass out of herself. Never having conversations with the kids, never even asking about them. Just filth. She did leave a message (which we still have) that she would willingly give up all rights (she gave up just about all rights in the divorce and even sent the dog back) to the kids if we pay her $1300. I guess in her world kids are cheap. She tried to sue for child support for Matt but it didnt work because in the divorce papers she stated that only 2 kids were produced in the marriage, not Matt. When she realized that she could not get money for Matt and the real "father" was no where to be found, she walked into the A Childs Waiting and gave up her rights to Matt. She agreed to do 20/20 because she thought this would make her a "star".
This is just a sample of what has happened, there is not enough time to really tell the whole story. But I hope the point gets across. The tears she cried on 20/20 are fake. Take note that 20/20 does not even mention the ex-husband and 2 kids she ran out on.
We have an order of protection against her (told oldest child she was going to take his sister away so he would never see her again because he would not spy on us and give her reports) which she has violated twice. She has warrents out for not showing up at court to address the charges. The oldest child does not want anything to do with her (dont blame him) and considers me Mom. The youngest has no memory of her and never will.
Both kids are happy and doing great. Matt has a wonderful family that he deserves. We have no clue if Kristen is alive or dead and really dont care. Her own mother has not spoken to her in 3 years. The last her mother heard, Kristen was on crack and was living where ever she could find a spot. No job, no money Kristen uses the men she meets in bars or online to take care of her. She is proof that just because you can give birth sometimes you really shouldnt.