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Dawn and Jeremy

I live in Tampa and there was an article about Dawn and Jeremy in the newspaper:

Demonized for $2.5K
A couple gets $2,500 to go on Bridezilla. It goes worse than expected ...
By Ben Montgomery
bmontgomery@tampabay.com
Dawn Clark and Jeremy Teabout tied the knot on Feb. 17 at Sand Key Park, before God and a film crew from WE tv's hit show Bridezillas.
Dawn had seen a Bridezillas ad online. She submit­ted an application, talked to producers, and pretty soon, cameramen were standing in her living room, white lights burning. Dawn and Jeremy agreed to let the film crew tag along for 10 days before the wedding, to capture their fights, their tension, their warts-and-all relationship.
In turn, they'd receive $2,500 for their wedding and 15 minutes of fame.
Ea$y, right?
••• They weren't allowed to see the show before it aired. So early this summer, Dawn and Jeremy invited friends and family to watch Bridezillas in their living room.
Dawn performed her role with flair. She appears in two episodes, now airing in reruns. In them, she wakes Jeremy at 5:30 a.m. and makes him exercise with a personal train­er while she eats doughnuts and calls him fat. She hires an etiquette coach to teach him table manners. She blows up when her mother is taken to the hospital.
She insults him and criticizes him until he's a quaking, slobbering mess on their wedding day.
Soon, a storm gathered online. On WE tv's Web site, someone started a post called: "The worst Bridezilla ..." Hundreds of comments piled up in blogs and on chat boards.
Dawn was called a sad excuse for a human being, a HORRIBLE HORRIBLE person, MEAN and NASTY, the WORST bridezilla, hypocritical, nasty, mean, crude, fat pig, a miserable pig and pure evil!!!
Someone found Dawn's Myspace page and posted a link. E-mails poured in.
July 28: I hope one day your walking down a dark alley and someone recognizes you and they beat the (expletive) out of you ...
Aug. 8: Choke on a donut you (expletive) pig Aug. 10: jeremy is too good for you. you actually should die!!!!!!!i hopeyouhave a heart attackyoufat (expletive) beast.
••• At their tidy home in Clearwater, photos of Dawn and Jeremy, smiling, line the shelves. Jeremy sits at the kitchen table waiting for his wife to get home from work. He's a security guard. She works for Pinellas County. They met seven years ago when they both worked at the old Cross­roads Mall. They've dated since.
Dawn's mother is in the living room, within earshot.
"To tell you the truth," Jeremy says quietly, "I liked it."
After the show aired, he got a lot of messages from sym­pathetic women telling him that he deserves better. Some­one recognized him at the Poison concert.
"To go somewhere and have someone notice you, it's a good thing for me," he says. Besides, "It's something I can pass on to my son and he can pass on to his son," he says. "Who around here can actually say their wedding was on national television?"
When Dawn arrives, she tells a different story. She says the producer encouraged her to be herself, plus 110 per­cent.
"I had no idea what we were getting into," she says.
She's says she and Jeremy signed a lengthy contract that prohibits them from suing WE tv for defamation.
"But it almost is defamation of character," she says. She has a stable job, drives a nice car and owns her home. "I'm a decent person. I have morals."
••• Dawn and Jeremy thought the reality show would show reality. Were that the case, Dawn admits, Bridezillas would have had plenty to work with. But the closer they came to wedding day, the fuzzier the line between reality and fic­tion became. She says the show set up Jeremy's etiquette coach and early-morning exercise outing. And they made her eat the doughnuts while he sweated through the work­out.
"I don't even like doughnuts," she says.
Dawn and Jeremy say they were often fed lines. And if you look closely enough, if you know Dawn and Jeremy, you can see them smirking.
Danielle Ostroske, a senior producer at WE tv, says the show does not create situations or personalities, and noth­ing in the show was concocted.
"It can be very eye-opening to see yourself on television," she says.
Dawn and Jeremy never expected the venom.
Did it hurt?
Dawn pauses.
"You were devastated, Dawn," says her mother on the couch.
The couple has been recognized at Perkins and Red Lobster. Most folks just whisper and point. No one has been rude.
Dawn says she doesn't regret doing the show, "but if I was ever asked to do another reality show, I wouldn't."
Jeremy would.
"He's obsessed with reading the blogs," Dawn says. "He likes how famous he's become."
Outside, a light rain is falling. Jeremy walks a reporter to his car and climbs into the passenger seat.
"A lot of it was fake," he says, "but a lot of it was right on." He says he's not happy in the marriage.
"She can be a real ..."
He spells it.
"B-I-T . . ."

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I know no one likes me but I have to say I agree with what Dawn went through and totally feel her pain.
The line between fiction and reality really blurrs. My friends know the truth and thats all that really matters but it definitly was not worth the harrassment. $2,500 is not worth the harrassment you recieve from crazed fans.
And this show has totally ruined reality TV for me. I can't even watch it anymore because I am an insider now.

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I you were the wedding planner I hope she did not pay you over 25.00! The whole wedding was a tacky Wal-Mart affair! She wore the ugliest clothes, had tacky hair & make up. There was not ONE thing about that wedding that was lovely. Including the bride!

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Dawn may very well be a nice person BUT she allowed the show to do this to her. She could have drawn the line but chose to do this. There is NO WAY that I would have disrespected my future husband the way she did. There's not that much money in the world for me to do something like that to someone I love. I don't care if it was for t.v. I'm pretty sure everyone that watched that show felt pretty bad for him by the way she acted towards him. She said that the show made her eat the donuts while he worked out, or had an etiquette coach or whatever was going on? I'm not buying it. She had to have some idea as to what she was getting into when this was being filmed. She used VERY poor judgement. I've been married 18 years and I would NEVER, EVER try (notice how I say try) and disrespect my husband for the amusement of others. First of all he's not having it ! ! bottom line. That's just the type of man he is. I hope she's learned a valuable lesson. JMHO.

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I know Dawn personally, in fact I am the wedding planner that put together her wedding. I am shocked that the Bridezilla's show is even still on the air. The way that Dawn is on this show is NOT how she is in person. She is one of the sweetest girls you'll ever meet. This show was totally scripted. They drove her over the edge. I was quite apprehensive when she told me she was going on the show. I didn't want our company associated to much extent. I am really saddened by the blogs, etc that have been written about her. I know she probably has regrets with being on the show. It's not worth 2500.00! I think she would have got 10 times more at least for the abuse that she has endured.

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