Spirits visiting and entire family who lives in different locations

John is this possible? So many things have happened with my mother and my siblings with a man thats 7ft tall with a wide hat. I was taken by the hand in a dream to the house my mother grew up in that was the start of the 7foot spirit. They had my hand but I could not see the ground its was like a floating tour the next morning I woke up I went to my mother and on paper drew the home she grew up in with great detail from the broom proped up by the front door mind you I was not even born yet and never got to meet my grandparents. I had a boyfirend and friend who died of aids he keeps playing the same Stevie Wonder song (that girl!)on the radio when I get in my car. Someone is trying to get my attention and I keep ignoring it because I'm scared someone is trying to contact me and they attemp every single night. What should I do?