Do you think it's appropriate to have your man's ex or even your ex invited to your wedding?
Hi ladies. My fiance has this ex who he was with some years back. she recently cleaned herself up because she was going through a hard time in life and she called my fiance on the phone a few weeks back. he told her he was engaged and she asked to come to the wedding. however, when i answered his phone one day, a picture message came through and it was her with a comment saying remember your ex chick. i didn't like that one bit. i talked to the both of them and she says they are just friends which is believeable,however,i don't think i want her at my wedding because i don't like the idea of anyone being at my wedding who has ever slept with my man. am i being a u know what? or does that make sense.
I do n ot think that it is appropriate for your ex to be one of the guest at your wedding. She is a part of his past and his is making a future with you and not only is it disrespecttul it will probably put you in an uncomfortable position and on "Your Day" it is about you and your new husband. So my suggestion is not to invite her. You are not being a you know what. You have put a lot of time, money and effort to make this day as drama-free as possible and having her there would definately add and element of drama. Congrats on you upcoming wedding.
Cathy