Sometimes in life you find yourself just going through the motions. Everyone has a choice to either roll with the punches or walk away. I applaud Andre on his attempt to reconnect us and bringing us back to the basics of love, fun and laughter. Dancing is a sure way to encourage affection. Some may look at me and wonder, ‘Towanda, does he have a job?’ I simply reply, ‘Yes.’ But understand that even though he hasn’t been working a job according to society for two years, he was certainly working on his craft of being a writer and a wonderful father to our beautiful children. If you’re in a committed relationship, your only expectation should be to know undoubtedly the emotional roller coaster of the good, the bad and the ugly. The individuals in the relationship have to be willing to compromise. Andre is a college educated man who decided to choose family and allowed me to expand on my career. Let me make myself perfectly clear, men don’t deserve a ‘cookie’ for doing what they are supposed to do however, it is important to commend those who are being an active parent. Who knows what lies ahead for Andre and I? I’m just enjoying the ‘dance’.