Our friend, Pat McAfee, we have known since Hank played for Colts. Pat surprised us with a trip to Big Bear, CA for our 4-year anniversary. We were so excited because it was perfect timing for a lake trip. Time to get out, let loose and just be free for a while. Adult playtime! So, we headed up and stayed in the most amazing cabin on Big Bear Lake. It was so perfect and the perfect way to spend our anniversary. It was a beautiful location, surrounded by our friends and having so much fun. We did all kinds of water activities like jet packing and just living it up! Jet packing was so much fun, but in order to get to where it was, we had to go through some of the nastiest and coldest water EVER. It was so worth it!
After a fun filled day we started having some drinks and something happened that we didn’t expect… DRAMA. I’m a person who lives my life in the moment. I’m a free spirit and when I’m around people that I’m comfortable with I get a little crazier than usual. When I tried to get Pat’s girlfriend to let loose with me, things turned sour. She thought I was trying to force her to go crazy, but it was just a comment I made that was taken way too far. Pat went to stick up for her and started a little bit of heat between us. It really sucked, because I always thought of Pat as the fun, crazy guy I would want to go on a lake trip with, but after he started saying things I began to feel differently. I got a little sad and was like… “Where did my buddy Pat go?” The trip started out fun and carefree, but ended up being anything but. Drama- free, yeah right! I get that some people are not like me, but I do believe people should speak up for themselves. Also, if people are going to be around me, they need to know it’s going to be a FUN time. I’m never pressuring anyone to do anything, I’m just encouraging fun.
What would you guys do?