It is human nature for men to do whatever they can to win over a woman’s heart. On first dates we will open car doors, take women on dates we can’t afford and spend time with her friends that we might honestly think are bad influences. We will do whatever it takes to feel like the man of your dreams. But eventually the time comes where we realize the jackasses that we have become who spent half the rent money on a Louis Vuitton purse that she only wore once.

In the last episode of Bridezillas we found out that Bobby, Brittany’s groom, is paying for the entire wedding. After this episode I think Brittany said it best when she confessed that she “wore the pants.” Bobby is still in the phase of trying to be “the man” instead of being a man. Bobby shouldn’t need to impress Brittany anymore by not acting his “wage.” If she doesn’t understand that being able to buy groceries is more important than trips to propose in New York, a man should realize she needs to get dropped off at the nearest bus stop cuz she ain’t ready for the ride of her life. Why should she ride in the rosy red Charger when she couldn’t even handle the Prius?

Did you see when he tried to defend Brittany after she started crying when Bobby’s friends were joking around? I could not take him seriously. “Guys come on…the drama starts when everyone starts talking.” He reminded me of a little choo- choo train who hasn’t yet reached the top of the hill. I just know it won’t take long for Bobby to get over the hill when he is loaded with piles of debt racked up by Brittany. Next stop…Brokeville!

Jeremi Dudu is an intern in the Digital Media department at WE tv. He enjoys writing about health, wellness and relationships. Jeremi received his degree in Communication from the University of Southern California.

Stress is good to a certain extent…it’s what motivates us to perform at our highest levels. It helps you appreciate the effort of getting things done and earning well-deserved rest. But on this week’s episode of Bridezillas I realized that there is also a need for something called a “chill pill.” It certainly would be beneficial to the families who have to deal with our Bridezillas.

Let’s first talk about Brittany. We have yet to see how her wedding will play out, but she is making her fiancé pay for the entire affair. From my perspective this has to be one of the ultimate Bridezilla no-no’s! Brittany shouldn’t be surprised if her honey moon is spent at a Motel 6 in the middle of Waco, Texas. No offense to the people out in Waco, but that just isn’t fair!

How many young grooms have $6,000 to toss around nowadays? Times are tough. And why bring an older woman to tears after she tried her best to make Brittany happy? I don’t care how old I am, if I ever made an older woman cry, my mother would be hitting home-runs on my butt with a broom stick. And then she had the nerve to say she didn’t know why Apostle, the florist, was crying! Strike 2! My mama would’ve thrown me in a cold shower.

Now Liza on the other hand, had a firecracker attitude. When she got behind the car to stop her bridesmaids from going home I just thought to myself, “Is that really necessary?” Now we have a Bridezilla who think she is the Hulk. Even if the bridesmaids tried on their dresses at midnight and they didn’t look good, did she plan on camping out at the store where she got the dresses to make her returns at 9 a.m. sharp? There was absolutely no need for that bologna. I wish Jason the best of luck and I hope the stress of hearing Liza’s yelling doesn’t drive him away from their new found union, but allows him to appreciate the effort of getting married and earning a well-deserved rest.

Jeremi Dudu is an intern in the Digital Media department at WE tv. He enjoys writing about health, wellness and relationships. Jeremi received his degree in Communication from the University of Southern California.

A lot of women say they want a “real man.” Well, my question would be “What is a real man?” Every woman has a different definition of what that is. Some women think a real man is someone who caters to all their desires. Others think that a real man is someone who is strong and macho. This leads me to Rochelle and her fiancé, Nathan, who got married on this week’s episode of Bridezillas.

Rochelle seems to be the type of bratty,18-year old girl who always wants to get her way. Wake up Rochelle! You will have a rude awakening, and I personally don’t think this marriage to Nathan will last longer than the sexual incompetence problem she mentioned more than once over the past 2 episodes. Nathan says the only thing he loves about Rochelle is the sex! Nathan sounds like a little boy that can’t wait to brag to his friends about losing his virginity.

Look at how many problems Rochelle had with her mom because her “dream wedding” was out of her parents’ price range. Soon she will have a dream house, dream car and dream children that all will depend on Nathan. She might want the new CLK 230, but you might only be able to afford a 1999 Honda Accord. Not shooting down your dreams there bud, but Rochelle is the kind of girl who won’t ever be satisfied. Soon you’ll be fed up with all the demands you can never meet. As a man, you have got to deal with her emotions. Not run away. I see your true colors and you don’t get my approval for manhood and marriage yet. Grow up!

Jeremi Dudu is an intern in the Digital Media department at WE tv. He enjoys writing about health, wellness and relationships. Jeremi received his degree in Communication from the University of Southern California.