About Shandra

Bride’s name & age: Shandra, 24
Bride's occupation: Commerical card analyst
Groom’s name & age: Armahn, 29
Groom's occupation: Technician

Honeymoon location: Honduras, Belize Mexico, Bahamas 7 day cruise

How long have you’re been dreaming of your wedding day and what was/is your Dream Wedding? Since I was 7 years old I dreamed of having Cinderella's castle wedding.

Approx. Wedding Budget: $10,000

Who’s paying for your wedding? Bride and groom

What happens if you go over budget? We are having this wedding under any circumstances. Lights will get turned off and we may loose our house but we are having this wedding.

Did you hire a wedding planner? How are they doing? My sister has been helping me with this wedding. She has been trying to take over my wedding but this will never happen.

How helpful has the groom been (or not) in the planning process? Not helpful at all. The only thing his lazy ass does is complain about the budget.

Tell us about your family. How have they been involved in the planning process? The only person that has been helpful in this wedding is my sister. Everyone else hasn't done nothing. It's crazy.

Have you or your groom been married before? Any children? If so, what role will the kids play on the wedding day? It's the first marriage for both of us. We have 3 children and they will be our ring bearers for the wedding.

What’s the worst thing that could go wrong on your wedding day? My groom not showing up and my mother getting drunk and embarrassing me on my wedding day.

Define the type a bride you will be. I will be a controlling bride because everything will go my way.

What disagreements have come up about the wedding? The thing we disagree with the most would have to be the budget for the wedding. But this isn't up for discussion. I will get my wedding.

Has the engagement/wedding ever been called off, or in jeopardy? Yes, plenty of times. The last time the wedding had been called off was about the budget. Armhn and I started to fight about the wedding and how we have been going over the budget, but I told him that I will get what I want. He called the wedding off, but by the end of the night he was making up to me because he knows how I am.